To us, a family is made of parents, kids, siblings, maybe even grandparents. But in a dog’s eyes? It’s all about the pack. Every person in your home plays a role—whether they know it or not. Curious where you rank? Or what your dog really thinks about the baby, the teen, or grandma? Let’s unpack the furry truth.

1. The Alpha: Usually (Hopefully) You
Dogs look for leaders—and if no one steps up, they just might! The person who feeds them, sets boundaries, and walks with confidence usually earns the top spot. And yes, dogs can test your leadership. Stay calm, firm, and consistent to keep the crown.
2. The Enabler: “Treat Human” Detected
Every family has one. Maybe it’s a kid who slips table scraps or a grandparent who lets the dog on the couch. To your pup, this person is the soft one—easy to manipulate, full of cuddles, and probably bad at saying no.
3. The Playmate: Best. Buddy. Ever.
Dogs often bond tightly with kids or high-energy adults who love to run, tug, or chase. These family members are equals in play and chaos—true littermates in the dog’s eyes.
4. The Mystery Figure: Respect From Afar
Some people in the house are quieter, busier, or less involved. Dogs may observe them with curiosity or caution. These members are often treated with polite distance—unless snacks are involved.
5. The Baby: Pack-in-Training
Newborns and toddlers are fascinating to dogs—but also fragile. Most dogs instinctively lower their energy around babies and may adopt a protective role. Just make sure supervision stays top priority.
6. Shifting Dynamics: Dogs Notice Everything
Arguments, new pets, or changing routines? Dogs pick up on shifts in energy and roles quickly. What feels like “just life” to us might be a pack shake-up to your pup.